:: 100 ways Say I Love You::

Just found some article on the net, on how to show your love to your family, spouse or friends (but mainly targeting to spouse la!). And thought to share it out, because most of is might not know in actual a very simple gesture does meant in showing the love to your loved one. We always tends forget and always takes things for granted.

Sharing is caring isn't? ^^

Everyone loves to be loved, and we all feel love differently. I feel loved when my husband helps out with the kids and the house or plans a getaway for just the two of us. Like most men, my husband likes to be shown love physically. Make a point this Valentine's Day to express your love for that special someone in a way that will make him or her feel treasured. Some of these ideas are romantic gestures while others are just little things you can do each day that will make a big difference to your companion. Whether you’re looking for date ideas or ways to show appreciation to your spouse, here are 100 ways to show your mate you care.

Ways To Say I Love You
•Recreate your first date
•Cuddle on the couch
•Hold hands while watching TV
•Surprise her by coming home early from work
•Take her shopping for the afternoon
•Sleep under the stars
•Change the oil in her car
•Cook his favorite meal
•Kiss hello
•Have professional portraits taken together
•Spend the entire day in bed
•Send him a card for no reason
•Carpool so you can spend more time together
•Have a date night every week
•Prepare a meal together
•Treat her to a pedicure
•Shovel her sidewalk after a snowstorm
•Plant a garden together
•Laugh at his jokes
•Warm his towel in the dryer while he’s in the shower
•Fall asleep touching
•Do a favor for his Mom
•Buy new underwear and put on a fashion show for your mate
•Dance the night away
•Sing in the shower together
•Tell him he’s sexy
•Tell her she’s sexy
•Say “I love you” everyday
•Buy her a sweet treat
•Make your relationship a top priority
•Do the dishes after she prepares the meal
•Hide a love note in his briefcase or lunchbox
•Show affection in public
•Massage his shoulders
•Go with him to his favorite sporting event
•Play a board game by candle light
•Sip hot cocoa by the fire
•Plan a romantic evening without the kids
•Make and eat chocolate covered strawberries together
•Help each other with household chores
•Call him at work just to say “I love you”
•Take the kids out for the morning and give her some alone time
•Rent his favorite movie
•Join a sports team together
•Throw a party for his birthday
•Share a bubble bath
•Write him a message on the steamy bathroom mirror
•Read a book together
•Wash her car
•Hug a lot
•Do a jigsaw puzzle together
•Make love at least once a week
•Exercise together
•Get married
•Have children
•Go on a picnic
•Plan your dream home together
•Watch your wedding video on your anniversary
•Vacation on the beach together
•Tell him you appreciate him
•Open the door for her
•Bake cookies together
•Ask her Dad for her hand in marriage
•Get to know her family
•Kiss for more than 10 seconds
•Serve her breakfast in bed
•Help with the laundry
•Make soup when she’s under the weather
•Record memorable occasions in a journal
•Start a collection together
•Go on a bike ride
•Read your wedding vows on your anniversary
•Plan a spa weekend for her and her best friend
•Kiss goodbye
•Leave a love note in his car
•Bite your tongue
•Take dance lessons together
•Play with your kids together
•Say “I love you” in a different language
•Send each other text messages throughout the day
•Decorate heart shaped cookies together
•Spend a day giving back to your community
•Wink to her from across a crowded room
•Blow kisses to each other
•Help her with a project she’s been wanting to complete
•Pay attention when he’s talking
•Take cooking lessons together
•Go hiking at sunset
•Write love letters
•Surprise him.
•Be each other’s best friends
•Return to your honeymoon hotel years later
•Offer her your arm
•Play with her hair
•Try something new together
•Pick up his shirts at the cleaners
•Run an errand for her
•Always respect each other
•Forgive each other
•Give each other a foot massage

:.. We are growing ..:

"We are growing...", to become more mature, to become prettier, to become more adult, to become us with longer(hair), and more more more more more...In blink of eyes, we are what we were now...Still fresh in my memories, where 3 of us spends our time together when we are kids, where mom forced May and I to become TWINS although we are not..Curling our hair with the same style, dress us up with the same pattern of dresses, and how 3 of us playing masak-masak (fake-cooking) together, fighting for the turn to play Barbie Doll, with the pink closet. *hahahah*

Steph has completed her teenager century and step ahead to become wife and mummy, same to Mei who is preparing to become a mummy soon....Left me behind, although good to remain single unmarried, as i can stay to be the youngest forever *at the moment*. You can see how we transform from "cute and adorable kids" to become "pretty and mature ladies". Unbelieveable?? "Believe it! - Ripley's believe it or not trademark.

The huge transformation of us

Let's start with Stephanie.....She was the eldest among us..Thus, she's the taller among us (few years back, as Tam Weng Loon Sook Mei started to grow mush tallerrrrrrrrrrrrr after eat all of Stephanie and my share of food..Grrr~~~~). Since she was the eldest, thus she was the most fierce one among us...Aiya, u know la, big sister (tai ka che) anyhow need to show her *power* as the biggest one...*heheheh*

I still remember we used to fight alot, name the fight, we had it...Mouth fight, cold war fight, hot war fight, eye fight (jeling-menjeling), hand fight, leg fight....She always scold me for *stealing - actually is borrowing without asking ok...* her dresses/shirts without her permission.....scold me for not clearing my clothes, scold me for jeling her....and more....

But now i know, all that she did is for my good sake....but it's too late now, as she not with me already (in same house). So everything will remain as memories in my mind...

Continue with my 2nd sister, Sook Mei. She's the most quiet and the most hardworking one among us..Mom used to pamper her alot as she likes to clean the house. Thats how she got the nickname "Pan Mui-Maid". So normally, i will dirty up back the things, mess up the things after she cleared it..so teruk hor...Jealousy..normal la...*wink*wink*

She used to have "ah lian" look, by wearing large and long dress..But everything changed when she started to grow. Now she's the prettiest among us by having fair and smooth skin, nice and sexy eye brow..*ahahahahah*

As i mentioned earlier, we used to be twins....but now, you can see the clear differences between us...And not forget to mention, she always gets the top in her class...It's either the 1st or the 2nd.. So again, jealousy comes when i remain stay "above" 10th in the ranking. Grrr~~ Bengang right...Hahahahah...But now i know, it doesnt matter to be the top or the last, it is enough as long as we know how to appreciate everyone around us, know how learn to become better, know how to improve to live better...The bottomline is, we all are the same...Don't ever ever compare, as this will not bring us anywhere..

Last but not least, myself..Frankly, i like the look when i was small..The cute look....Chubby look, especially when i have the "coconut hair" and "seaweed hair"...Hahahah~~I used to have big eyes, small nose, and small mouth which i think suit my face the most when i small...But now, maybe because im growing, same goes to the diameter of my face, but my eyes ad mouth remain the small, not now looks weird...*hahahahah*

I still remember how bad tempered i am when i was small. Mom used to throw me down from staircase (of course acting to throw la.., else i wont be here today*hahaha*) because i "fat pei hei" showing my temper because of something, forgotten ledi...And i remember i used to commit suicide using those metal blade because mom scold at me..*hahahahha* So funnnyyyyyy when recall that....

And i got a nickname u know, and a trademark also..Nickname = "Lun Chun Mau" - careless cat...because i always spoil something up whenever i sit near to dining table...Trademark = "Yat Em cho Yeh, Yat Cho Yeh Jao Da Lan Yeh" - I will always break something whenever i help them...Something like that..Its a cantonese proverb to describe someone who is damn damn careless...Hahahhaah~~

Sis, i'm learning...im learning.......

:.. "Time flies, but memory Stays"..:

A meaningful phrase from "her", wondering who is she? Yes, she is my eldest sister, Stephanie Tam. Absolutely agree, why? Because we as a human tends to forget things easily, we are human anyway. Thus, we must capture every precious moments, every special moments we had together with our loved one, our beloved family, our treasured friends, and more...The more captured moments we had,the more precious the moments will be..

Not to drag too far, let's enjoy browsing through the special moments captured for Amanda Lee (birthday girl), Stephanie Tam (birthday girl's mom), Lee Guan Kiang (birthday girl's dad), Tam's Family, Cheah's Family, Lee's Family, all our friends and relatives...

The venue for the day, 888 Cafe




Decoration for the day



Foods for the day



Presents for the day



Birthday Girl, "I'm One-with more teeth & hair"







"Ciak, Ciak", Photo Time!

~ More photos @ "My Precious Girl" ~